30 things I’ve learnt in 30 years

On May 7th 2018 I turned 30, which seems like such a long time ago now but I wanted to mark the occasion in some way. Anyone else think this year is really flying by?

I celebrated my 30th birthday with a Star Wars themed party which my sister planned for me. It was a surprise party and I honestly had no idea she was doing it. It was perfect from themed food, to family and friends in costume and props being on display – I loved it. She also held it on May the fourth: Star Wars day.

Here’s a few photos from the night…
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30 things I’ve learnt in 30 years.

* It’s OK to let go of toxic friendships.

* You’re never too old for Disney (or anything for that matter), and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

* It’s OK to let go of possessions that no longer hold value for you. In fact having a clear out can be a great way to clear your mind.

* Make time for your family, your friends and most importantly, yourself.

* Budgeting is important!

* It’s OK to return unwanted items to the store – within the return T&Cs.

* It’s never too late to seek help.

* … and, it’s not a sign of weakness if you ask for help.

* It’s OK to cry and it’s OK to be not OK.

* It’s not too late to apologise.

* When life gets rough you find out who really cares.

* Find things you truly enjoy instead of things that just fill time.

* Not everyone will like you or needs to… and that’s OK.

* Be honest about who you are and what you enjoy in life and never apologise for who you are.

* Be nice to everyone. You never know the struggles they are going through, just as they don’t know yours.

* Experiences are far more valuable than possessions.

* Stop comparing yourself to others.

* Take care of your mental health – it’s just as important as your physical health.

* Exercise can be fun.

* University isn’t for everyone.

* It’s OK to change your career path.

* Take a picture (or a video) – it’ll last longer. Cherish those memories.

* Not everything needs to be posted on social media.

* Always trust your gut instinct.

* Mayonnaise isn’t as bad as I thought it was – I hadn’t tried it until I was 26 years old!

* Self-care is always important.

* Always stay in contact with the friends that show they care.

* Do what you love. If there’s one thing you’ve ways wanted to do, do it. Time is short.

* Learn to say ‘no’ and be more assertive.

* But on the flip side, learn to say ‘yes’ and do the things that may scare you. Try and get out of your comfort zone.

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I hope you enjoyed reading this post as much I enjoyed writing it. 🙂